Just Hug Me
By Candace (Mayberry) Evans
You see me in person
Going about my day.
Life goes on even after tragedy.
“How are you doing?”
You ask, really wanting to know.
I feel the heaviness always;
Don’t want to burden anyone.
“I’m doing okay.”
I really am. But I’m not, too.
You sense my unseen sorrow.
“Mourn with those that mourn:”***
You want to do this for me.
Words seem inadequate
And they are.
So just hug me,
No words necessary.
“Can I hug you?”
If you must speak aloud.
Linger in the embrace,
I feel you say
“I’m sorry. I care.”
Unspoken words drive deep.
Hug the words of your heart to me,
Absorb a piece of my sorrow.
My return embrace,
Shoulders relaxing,
A little grief freed, says,
“You care…you remember. Thank you.”
***Mosiah 18:9, The Book of Mormon Another Testament of Jesus Christ
I would love to share this with my friends. May I have permission to share Candace’s words? I have had a hard time expressing my needs and feelings to my friends who want to “mourn with those who mourn”.
Candace said, “Absolutely!” Hugs are the perfect expression of sympathy when it’s hard to know what to say or do.